Is She Really Testing You… Or Herself?

Dear Seeker of Success,

I’ve seen Sarges go colder than a winter day in Antarctica the moment a man senses he’s being tested by the salaciously scintillating Sargee in front of him.

Case in point: this note from a student who’s basically doing it right but still hitting a stumbling block…

> After a few month’s worth of working on myself and feeling grounded whenever approaching, talking, interacting with a woman I choose to sarge, I am finding that I am not being successful in recognizing when I’m being tested and for whatever reason the connection is lost. What are some of the indicators that I am being tested?

Some of what you talk about can be accurately viewed as “tests”; meaning that

She Is Seeking A Response That May Not
Be Consciously In Her Awareness
(And Also Is Not Expressed Directly)

That is a HUMAN trait.

We ALL do this.

Men AND women.

What I have learned, when it comes to sex, is that many of what “seem” like tests are about her needs, as you’d say for:

• Trust
• Being well led (but not 100%; it’s fun to give over the lead and many women can handle taking it for a while to some extent)
• And most importantly: women need to be FRACTIONATED.

When it comes to sex/intimacy etc. women need fractionation.

Often, what SEEMS like resistance or pulling away or testing is just her own way of fractionating her

Connecting To You So That
It Is More Appealing When
The Connection Returns.

I really do NOT think this is at all conscious.

It’s just what women, hard-wired in the brain, NEED to feel sufficiently aroused etc.

They aren’t testing for “strength” etc. etc. in these cases.

They just are attempting to “self medicate” in a sense and assist the process of their own desire.

We guys, with our driving need to penetrate, penetrate, PENETRATE NOW NOW NOW have a hard time (pun definitely intended) grasping this concept.

Peace,

RJ

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