35 Signs You Are Unattractive *and All The Quick Fixes You Need*

Feeling unattractive is horrible. Sometimes it’s hard to know whether it’s all in your head. Here are 35 signs you are unattractive, and how to change!

It’s tough to know how attractive we really are. There are those undeniably beautiful, you know the celebrities and models of the world, and those undeniably ugly—who are famous or ridiculed for being so! However, for the regular person, sometimes we feel pretty great about our physical appearance and some days we feel like we might be the most unattractive person in the world. That is why you need to understand the signs you are unattractive.

So, which one is the right version of ourselves? Are we just being incredibly arrogant when we look in the mirror and think “Oh, I look pretty good today”? Or are we being totally paranoid when we despair at how unattractive we are?

Signs you are unattractive and the quick fixes you need

Let’s face it, while we all have different qualities and flaws about us that make us more or less attractive, there are some signs that we might be leaning towards the pretty or the ugly end of the spectrum.

Of course, attractiveness isn’t wholly to do with our physical appearance, it can be affected by what we wear, how we smell, and our personalities! Let’s look at some signs that demonstrate you might be unattractive.

#1 You are overweight. Being overweight drastically reduces someone’s attractiveness, and it’s dangerous to your health too. [Read: 12 benefits of exercise on your mind, body, and libido]

#2 You have poor personal hygiene. Smelling bad is so off-putting!

#3 Your teeth are bad. A yellow, crooked smile makes someone seem much less attractive.

#4 You never make an effort. If you can’t be bothered to be attractive why would anyone find you so?

#5 You haven’t bought any new clothes in years. Looking like a tramp was so… never. [Read: Attraction theory – What makes you attractive in someone’s eyes?]

#6 You wear ill-fitting or inappropriate outfits. Swampy, baggy clothes are as much of a fashion faux pas as tiny mini dresses on the wrong lady. Find out what suits you and is appropriate for your age!

#7 You have a short tempter. Being snappy and grumpy isn’t attractive at all.

#8 You’re too opinionated. Stop forcing your opinions down everyone else’s throats!

#9 You have bad tattoos. Terrible tattoos don’t go down well!

#10 You have bad hair. A bad haircut really changes how attractive someone is. Make sure you know what you want before you let that stylist get all scissor happy on you! [Read: How to build self-confidence: 16 ways to realize you’re worth it]

#11 You tell bad jokes. A lame sense of humor is a major turn off.

#12 You are overbearing. No one likes feeling as though they controlled.

#13 You are too loud. Just pipe down!

#14 You have bad skin. While it’s not fair that some people are acne prone and others aren’t, bad skin can be off-putting to some.

#15 You talk about things that make other people uncomfortable. Don’t do it!

#16 You are arrogant. While it’s good to be self-assured, overconfidence can be very unattractive. [Read: The subtle differences between a confident person and an arrogant one]

#17 You have no interests. It’s hard to light up the room if you have nothing to say for yourself.

#18 You stoop when you walk. Stand proud, stand tall!

#19 People try to advise you. Take the hint, for goodness sake!

#20 You have a bad attitude. If you are going to be really difficult all the time, people quickly lose interest in you. [Read: 8 attitudes that push potential partners away]

#21 You are lazy. People with energy who get up and go are considered far more attractive than those that sit around in jammies all day.

#22 Your friends give up on you. A bit of a Billy no-mates? It might be a sign that your friends have abandoned you. Are you a lost cause?

#23 You don’t exercise. You’ve got to stay fit, healthy, and strong to be attractive—even if you are not overweight, exercise is important! Does this sound like you? If so don’t despair! There is plenty you can do to turn things around! [Read: 25 inspirational tips to get motivated and work out]

#24 Get healthy. Eating the right foods and drinking plenty of water has a positive effect on how well you look. Cut out greasy junk food and high calorie takeout and eat lots of fresh fruit, vegetables, grains, seeds, and fish. The goodness in these foods boosts your skin and hair and give you a radiant, healthy glow.

#25 Be nicer! If you are known for being cold, cutting, bossy, or annoying, maybe it’s time to step back and think about how you treat people and what you can do to be a little nicer. It really can work wonders, you know! [Read: How to be nice and loved by all, in almost no time!]

#26 Get clean. Personal hygiene is so important. If you haven’t been paying proper attention to yours, now is the time. Shower every day, use nice smelling products and don’t ever forget to wear deodorant!

#27 Get new interests. Interesting people are more attractive as they come across as fun, lively, and intelligent. Get some new hobbies. You’ll not only meet new people but have much more to say for yourself too.

#28 Get a personal trainer. A personal trainer helps get you back in shape and lose weight. Being overweight makes so many of us feel sluggish and depressed. Get moving and start working towards a leaner, trimmer new you!

#29 Get a new job. If you hate your job, then changing things up helps you realize your potential and doing something you love makes you happier. People who are happier and more satisfied with their lives appear more attractive to others. [Read: Follow your dreams: All the amazing reasons why it’s worth it]

#30 Start caring about your appearance. It’s great not to be obsessed with your appearance, but at the same time taking no care often means you fall short of looking your best. Make an effort, at least every now and again, and you’ll feel so much better.

#31 Get a new wardrobe. Throw out those old sweat pants and treat yourself to a shopping spree to get a whole new wardrobe! If you aren’t sure what kind of clothes you should be wearing, head to a department store where personal shoppers can give you advice and help pick out pieces that suit you. [Read: 13 physical attraction moves to look way hotter instantly]

#32 Listen to friendly advice. If your friends have tried to subtly tell you about your bad breath or body odor for a while, instead of getting cross and isolating them, appreciate that they are trying to help you. Then do something about it!

#33 Go to the dentist. If you are worried that your teeth are holding you back, take a trip to your local dentist. They’ll be able to give you advice and options for what you can do to get that perfect bright white smile. [Read: How to look beautiful and oh-so-hot – 15 effortless ways]

#34 Go to the hairdresser. A decent haircut really makes all the difference. If you’ve let your locks get a bit straggly of late, hot foot it down to your local salon for a bit of pampering. [Read: How to look fabulous while trying to get attention]

#35 Get some confidence. Being confident really is half the battle when it comes to attractiveness. Stand tall and proud and have faith that you are one hot piece, and just get out there and enjoy yourself!

[Read: Self-concept: What it is and why it’s crucial to your happiness]

Just remember being attractive is a combination of being beautiful both inside and out. Take care with your physical appearance and try to stay fit and healthy, but don’t forget to be a nice person too. Otherwise, no matter how pretty you are, people just won’t be able to see it!

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