Dear Seeker of Success,
It’s a fairly common issue.
Students of mine who immerse themselves in Rapid and Total Success With Women, or who attend our live seminars, find themselves using the skills, tools, and techniques with women.
The woman responds. But then the student is left with a “…ok, now what?” feeling.
Case in point (from one of my students):
I did a Sarge. I did seductive techniques such as Roller, Folder, Tosser, the Snack Quiz, and then a seduction question, but I didn’t know what to do after she gave me the answer to the seduction question. I’m wondering about a rehearsal for that.
RJ here. It’s something more than just rehearsal.
The Sargy Follow-Up Questions You Must
First Ask Yourself
How are you noticing her responses when you do these things right from the very beginning?
What kind of energy or attitude are you bringing into this?
How are you demonstrating that you’re playful about this rather than that it’s a task that you have to do well at?
How are you bringing the quality of playfulness into whatever you’re doing, whether it’s Snack Quiz or Roller, Folder, Tosser?
How are you conveying playfulness and warmth with your voice and facial expression?
Here’s Where Prince F@@king Charming
Rides To The Rescue
Ultimately what I’m teaching you, at least in the beginning when you’re first meeting women in the first five to 10 minutes, is being charming.
How are you conveying that in your voice, the way you speak and your facial expressions?
The first five to 10 minutes is to create a mood of her feeling like she’s enjoying herself, she’s relaxed and comfortable, and that she feels a little bit pulled towards you.
To unpack that, that means that you present a grounded presence. You’re grounded in your body, you’re playful, and you’re a little bit intriguing so she gets it. She wants more.
The main part of that is you being able to feel what that feels like in your own body and to convey that through your voice and in your face.
So, That’s The Next Step To Making
Language Patterns Work
And, until you grasp that and that is the major element in your understanding, it’s sort of like you’re going through the motions.
And when it’s your turn to speak, you won’t know your next move.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. My famous “Ross Plays With Girls” demos at our March 11-13 Speed Seduction® seminar in Los Angeles will let you see, before your very eyes, exactly how all this works. Click here to claim your seat now >>>
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