Tuesday, January 31, 2017

She Has A “Boyfriend” – Hooray!

Dear Seeker Of Success,

In my 29-year history of teaching guys to have more success with women than they ever thought possible, one thing I hear over and over is this:

“Things seemed to be going well until she said she had a boyfriend”.

Now, if had a nickel for every woman I’ve slept with who right prior to that lovely event told me, “I have a boyfriend”…

…I’d Be Living In Tahiti With
The Entire Swedish Women’s
Collegiate Volleyball Team.

Fact is, these kind of responses are almost always auto-pilot expressions; pre-programmed words that flow forth from her mouth.

Puffs of air from between her lips.

If they came out the other end, they’d be farts.

Now, when a person has an auto-pilot response like this, it is a perfect opportunity to do what is known in NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) as a “pattern interrupt”.

This simply means you give a response that is different from the one they are expecting.

Most women expect a guy to either start putting down the boyfriend, argue, or give up.

However, when you break her expectations with a completely surprising response, you create what a call “a window of suggestibility” through which you can begin to control the direction of her thoughts, emotions, imagination, decisions and ACTIONS.

Now let’s get you involved.

What do you think are some things you can say that would be other than typical responses to the ludicrous, “I’ve got a boyfriend” objection?

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Let’s DOUBLE this.

Let’s add on, how to use the four seduction conversation formats to stack suggestions and create maximum receptivity. Come to LA and we’ll give that for you.

 

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