How You Can Tell If She’s Girlfriend Material

Dear Seeker of Success,

Once you’ve mastered even the tiniest portion of my material, getting women into bed will become relatively easy.

But what about when you get so good at it, it’s time to think about selection instead of seduction?

(By the way, one of the paradoxical principles of success with women is this: the more selective a man is, the greater the selection of women he’ll enjoy.)

I’ve got some quick tips today about how to

Tell If She Is Truly Girlfriend Material
As Opposed To Being A Bedwarmer
Or F-Buddy

Here are the things I look for:

1. Does she make your well being a priority?

In other words, does she show in her behavior that your happiness matters?

2. Is she a giver?

When you walk in the door from a long day and you are obviously tired, does she immediately begin to try to get your attention? Or does she come over and give you a shoulder rub (or BJ), snuggle up and rub your neck, etc etc?

3. Can she express her upset without making it about name calling?

It’s important to find a woman who can share what’s going on with how she feels, without her using personal attacks, name calling or make it about who you are as a person.

For example, there’s a big difference between her saying, “You are such an inconsiderate jerk!” and saying, “Hey….I really don’t like what you just did. I just felt ignored when you did that.”

4. Does she have a life/goals/passions outside of being with you?

Any woman who has her shit together won’t make her relationship with you the only thing going on in her life. Sure; she might make it top priority. But does she have other things that make her happy?

5. Does she finish what she starts?

Story: the very best sex of my life(and I’ve had lots of sex) was with a drop dead Danish woman.

I mean, the sex was so good, I could go 2 or 3 days without sleeping and still get it up multiple times.

In a word: it was insane.

However, this lady never finished what she started.

Ever.

As soon as something came up with one of her personal goals that sidetracked her, she just gave up and blamed someone else or the circumstances.

This went to such ridiculous extremes that she flunked her driver’s license test and rather than re-take it, she just let it go.

Oh yes – she was always broke because she quit ever job she ever took.

Look: everyone has setbacks, struggles and hardships.

Your woman will too.

But if she can’t keep moving forward SHE WILL HOLD YOU BACK.

I’d super-appreciate your feedback on this post.

So please comment below.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Should you find yourself deciding now is the time to take things to a new level, the “Buddy To Bedmate” course inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection can get you there much faster than anything you’ve seen up until now.