Feminist Porn: Un-Faking Porn and Celebrating Female Sexuality

Most women don’t like porn because they find it too fake and unrealistic in beauty standards. However, feminist porn is all about empowering women.

When you think of porn, you think of guys ejaculating on the woman’s face while she’s moaning away in pleasure. Although some women are like that in real life, let’s be honest, that’s a rare find. The only things I like on my face is my moisturizer. Sorry, not sorry.

13 things you need to know about feminist porn

Feminist porn is different than regular porn. Normal porn is always focused around penetration, but feminist porn is all about engaging and empowering women.

Women want a story. We want foreplay. I mean, we’re emotional beings, so we want to be involved with the plot and characters. However, in normal porn, it’s all about the “grand finale”… if you know what I mean.

It doesn’t always have to be a man’s world. Here are the 13 things you need to know about feminist porn. [Read: 10 reasons lesbian porn is way hotter than regular porn]

#1 Definition of feminist porn. What exactly is feminist porn? Good question. The word “feminist” in feminist porn can give off mixed signals since there are feminists that are anti-pornography. It’s almost like an oxymoron.

Their argument is because it de-humanizes women and promotes violence against them. However, there are pornography-positive feminists that believe that pornography can be used as a positive tool for self-expression and encourage female sexuality. Basically, feminist porn is designed to empower women and illustrate their sexuality in a real light.

#2 Is porn for women the same thing? Porn for women does fit under the umbrella of feminist porn. However, porn for women doesn’t necessarily focus on breaking gender norms and sexual stereotypes. It’s more about making the story for engaging for women, unlike regular porn. [Read: Porn for women – why do we like it and where can we find it?]

#3 Do the female actresses look like porn stars? I used to hate watching porn because by the time it finished, I was feeling shitty that I didn’t have that actress’s body and face. I mean, porn stars are hot.

However, they’re stuffed and filled with every type of plastic and filler you can find. It’s just not realistic. However, feminist porn encourages women of all sizes, shapes, and ethnicities.

#4 Where is feminist porn accessible? Another good question. Welcome to the magical world of the internet. Listen, I’m sure you can go to a sex shop and buy some DVDs. However, everything now is available online.

But since it’s the internet, you’ll go through a lot of crappy porn. However, I did some much-rewarded research and found some great directors and sites you should check out. [Read: 10 good reasons why women should watch porn]

#5 Director Tristan Taormino. A renowned writer, sex educator, and of course, director, Taormino is one of the most well-known pornography directors that are pro-women. She covers a variety of niches, including BDSM. Usually, BDSM is pretty negative towards women. However, her BDSM scenes won’t have you flinching. I recommend checking out Expert Guide to Rough Sex and Rough Sex 2.

#6 Director Erika Lust. If you’re an Indie film fan, well, you can also watch an Indie porn film. Lust is a Swedish director, producer, and screenwriter that’s hot on the feminist porn scene.

The actresses she uses are stunning women who own their beauty and even have pubic hair, thank God. It’s nice to know that when winter comes, I’m not the only one who grows a parka. She has a set of erotic short films called XConfessions. Check it out. [Read: What feminists want to hate in bed but totally love]

#7 The Art of Blowjob. Well, this title is pretty self-explanatory. It’s a website that takes you through the experiences of Camille Crimson, who well, can give a mean blowjob.

She’s very well known in the feminist porn industry for her ethical and feminist approach to pornography. There’s definitely an emotional connection when she’s doing her thing.

#8 Bright Desire. This is a porn production company that focuses on celebrating sex. What other activity could you possibly celebrate with this much joy? They focus on giving their viewers a glimpse of real sex.

You know, when people are laughing or talking or accidentally elbowing each other in the eyes – you know, the real deal. I mean, that’s what sex really is! [Read: Uncovered secrets of the porn industry]

#9 Jiz Lee. Har har har. What a name, pretty catchy. Jiz Lee is a genderqueer and queer feminist porn star who’s one of the most popular actresses in feminist porn. On the side, she also has her own project, Karma Pervs, where you can buy erotic images online and the money made goes to non-profit organizations. I mean, that’s pretty cool… give back while masturbating.

#10 Queerporn.tv. If you’re into “proud modern sluts, hardcore trans sex, feminist queers, and more,” then this is totally your website. The couple who started this website is all about sex positivity and was even honored at the Feminist Porn Awards. Not bad, eh? [Read: How do the ladies like their pornography?]

#11 Ersties. Berlin is always where the good stuff comes from. This is also another gem from Berlin. The production house, Ersties, is all about starring real-life couples and women who shockingly look like me and you. Okay, maybe not exactly like me and you, but you get my drift. It’s all about being real, from the inside out.

#12 Sssh.com. You know what normal porn looks like. It’s all about the men and their penises. Boring. Well, not for them. Sssh.com focuses on engaging women. Women write and direct the movies, women write the articles, and they take the photos as well. It’s all women. So, not only will you not be able to find a man on that site, you’ll also watch and read stories that are focused on engage women. [Read: 25 common porn myths that people still believe]

#13 Dick for Girls. Well, can’t get any more straightforward than that, eh? What do we want?! Dicks! When do we want them? Now! Dicks for girls is a Tumblr page which, well, is all about giving women the D.

However, you’re not going to get some gross dick pic showing up on your browser. Instead, all the photos are very artistic and tastefully done, and this does a great job of working the good ol’ imagination.

[Read: 10 popular moves from porn that men do that women hate]

If you’re tired of watching porn that is not relatable to you, maybe it’s time you switched it up and tried out feminist porn. It’s as real as it gets.

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